Thank you. Mostly! Already had a transphobe troll on HERE so that was unexpected, haha. But, reported, blocked, done :D Too old and too ready to care, haha. I have hundreds that support me for every troll that tries to poke their head through the barrier - I've learned that quickly and it's very nice :D Plus, ever attack has taught me something and made me more determined. This one prompted my next article so should be fun, hahaha ;)

Preamble: This is my very public journal to track my gender journey; my thoughts, my feelings, my doubts. I don’t know where this will take me but perhaps by tracking it, following it day by day, I can track through to a conclusion even if that conclusion is I am nothing or everything and I don’t need a label. And even if that conclusion is I am a man. I thought I was a cisgender woman. Now, I don’t know what I am, but I know I’m not that.

I Don’t Know How to Accept Love and Support. WTF?

Ok, so I posted a video on TikTok and it got…

Thank you :D That's amazing. I am overwhelmed in the best way possible at how supportive the LGBTQIA+ community is. <3

What you need to know before reading this article: For forty-something years, I identified as a cishet woman. Now, I know I’m not. I’m trans and queer. Wow, right? I’m choosing to share my journey, as it happens, to gain clarity for myself and maybe even help others. Come play.

I feel like I need to start tracking this journey; my thoughts, my feelings, my doubts. I don’t know where this will take me but perhaps by tracking it, following it day by day, I can track through to a conclusion even if that conclusion is I am nothing or everything and I don’t need a label. And even if that conclusion is I am a man.

I thought I was a cisgender woman. Now, I don’t know what I am, but I know I’m not that. I wrote an article for Gender from the Trenches about how this whole…

For clarity, let’s frame this up from the start. For forty something years, I’ve identified as a straight cisgender woman. Now, I’m not so sure. Now, gay transmasc is sitting rather nicely. This is the beginning of my journey. Come play.

It is odd to me that although I have questioned my sexuality numerous times, until recently, I have never questioned my gender. My explorations of sexuality always conclude the same way; I am definitely attracted to males. But I have never wondered if my gender identity matched that which I was assigned at birth (female) because I was never…

I’m a professional house-sitter and pet-sitter. What does that mean? Well, it means that I look after other people’s pets and houses while they are on vacation or away for whatever reason. I don’t pay rent, I don’t pay a mortgage, I don’t pay bills. Technically, I could be considered homeless and jobless as I don’t have a permanent residence or an ‘employer’. I travel across Australia with a suitcase and this is how I will be debt-free in less than two years. …

The woman giggled as the snake gently wrapped around her arm and rested his head in her hand. She adjusted herself in the tree and ran her other hand along his long slender body.

“That isssss nicccce,” he hissed and though he was a snake, he definitely smiled. His tongue darted out and tickled her fingers gently. She jumped a little and giggled again. He lifted his head and turned to her feeling his body slide across her skin as he rose up.

“You are sssssso beautiful,” hissed the snake.

“You are too kind,” she blushed and scratched under his…