Hmmm, sounds like you have ALL the privilege — “…if people couldn’t handle thinking I was a fat white cishet ‘woman’, how could they handle knowing I am really a rounded Aboriginal agender gay boi?” That’s a Hard Pass! Recently, I reported an article. It had been on Medium for three months and was as harmful a post as I’ve ever seen on…

When I was both cishet and queer AF — I don’t have a big ‘coming-out’ story. Not that any queer person has just one singular coming-out story, but I don’t even have many stories in my coming-out compilation. For me, the biggest coming-out was to myself when I pretty much tripped over a unicorn and stumbled out of the…

Twisting words and having laughs because life’s too gay to be taken straight — I’m just going to sit here and if you say shit I deem dumb, it’s your ooooooown fault! We in the rainbow community hear a lot of dumb shit from the ill-informed, uneducated, typically white cishet-normative societal members who claim to be superior by virtue of their ‘straightness.’ And, let’s face it, much of it is downright hilarious. …

Podcaster, writer, and queer, oh my — Contents — Click for quick links My Medium Catalog Who is this Weirdo? That’s a Fine Queerly Trans Enby! I make Words Good Treading Water Fictional Podcast The Character Collective Podcast Publication Paradise LAST UPDATED: 30th September, 2023 My Medium Catalog: Check out this easy-find index to locate all my articles — sorted by theme. …

Reflecting on my transition journey this week — SUMMARY: The P in PTSD is for parents And we’re out Until we’re back…. FINAL WEEK CHECK-IN: Trans Life: Don’t forget to pick up my T. Don’t forget to pick up my T. Don’t forget to… fuck, what? And do the editing! DO THE EDITING! Fuck. Me. DO. THE. EDITING. I remembered to pick…

Reflecting on my transition journey this week — SUMMARY: I did things Anxiety from Melbourne to Adelaide I’m a vampire WEEK 103 CHECK-IN: Trans Life: Recording. Yep. OMG. This week is hectic. Three sits over two states so lots of travel and lost time. I’m going to try to take it easy on myself. Oh crap, and I need to buy more…

Reflecting on my transition journey this week — SUMMARY: I didn’t do the thing — no-one is surprised I’m stupid and imperfect Hospital booked: The saddest highlight ever WEEK 102 CHECK-IN: Trans Life: Recording of the youtube videos is happening this week because I can’t put it off any longer. Everything else is done and ready. I’ve cut and coloured my hair…

Reflecting on my transition journey this week — SUMMARY: Backlash over de-transitioning video but not as expected My imposter syndrome uses she/they pronouns Living life 30 minutes at a time WEEK 101 CHECK-IN: Trans Life Past: I’ll be watching out for the aftermath of that stupid show. I hope with every molecule in my body that there is an uproar and backlash…

When a major Australian television network decides to listen to the crap flowing from the USA instead of doing actual research — I am so damn angry right now. So many times, I’ve sung the praises of Australia and our openness and acceptance. More than once I’ve said, “I’m so glad I’m in Australia.” And I still am, but I’m losing faith. It’s happening on two fronts around two minority communities —…