Hmmm, sounds like you have ALL the privilege — “…if people couldn’t handle thinking I was a fat white cishet ‘woman’, how could they handle knowing I am really a rounded Aboriginal agender gay boi?” That’s a Hard Pass! Recently, I reported an article. It had been on Medium for three months and was as harmful a post as I’ve ever seen on…

When I was both cishet and queer AF — I don’t have a big ‘coming-out’ story. Not that any queer person has just one singular coming-out story, but I don’t even have many stories in my coming-out compilation. For me, the biggest coming-out was to myself when I pretty much tripped over a unicorn and stumbled out of the…

Twisting words and having laughs because life’s too gay to be taken straight — I’m just going to sit here and if you say shit I deem dumb, it’s your ooooooown fault! We in the rainbow community hear a lot of dumb shit from the ill-informed, uneducated, typically white cishet-normative societal members who claim to be superior by virtue of their ‘straightness.’ And, let’s face it, much of it is downright hilarious. …

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20 months since I started T — In this edition (click for quick links) The twentieth month in review Other changes Are you my peeps? Are you new here? The T-Day and Beyond journal Get instant access to EVERYTHING on Medium for $5/month. Use this link to help pay for the author’s ongoing therapy — I’m not even joking ⊙_☉ The twentieth month in review Zombie mode activated. And…

Reflecting on my transition journey this week — WEEK 86 CHECK-IN: Trans Life Past: This week I have therapy — yay! Lol. Looking forward to telling GT about the team I’ve put together and what we’ve done (rather than what we plan to do, lol). I also have my blogging jobs due. Apart from that, the week is open! Got the…

Teaser from the Character Collective Podcast — Unprofessional writers doing a thing — The following is an edited EARLY SNEAK PEEK from Season 3, Episode 33 of the Character Collective podcast. New episodes are available every Wednesday from 6am (EST). Listen to the latest episode here: Kai: Right. Podcast. We’re doing things, right? I have things…

Reflecting on my transition journey this week — WEEK 85 CHECK-IN: Trans Life Past: This week, I’ll be heading back to the sit from whence I came, haha. The priorities will now list the top three prioities from my priorities list but there is no intention to complete them this week. It is just the next three things but my aim…

May 2023 writer update from Kai Parker — Contents (with quick links): May 2023 Writer Update Life of a Writer — This Month in Review WIP Update PUBLISHED! Next Month May 2023 Writer Update Well, this month took a few turns. To cut a long story short, plans are sleeves and I have a writing team. Firstly, the plan stuff. Anton (my NUSA vampire) yelled at…