There is much controversy and opinion around the narrative of when and how a transgender individual should (or shouldn’t) reveal their gender status. So much so, I could turn this…
How many gay crushes does it take to screw in a trans lightbulb?
All of them, apparently.
Are you a crushing machine? Do you…
What is the trans experience? What is a typical trans evolution? That’s like asking what is the perfect coffee — everyone will give you a different answer, and some will insist that their answer is the only real correct answer. In truth, there is no typical trans evolution because there…
You check in. It is uneventful.
You walk in the front door into reception and are instantly greeted with, ‘Hello madam’. You bite your tongue even though the word irks you — the word has always irked you, you just never knew why until recently. The receptionist says madam again…
Trans Journey Day 67: Today has been canceled because I don’t wanna.
I don’t wanna play. I don’t wanna talk. I don’t wanna share. I just, don’t wanna. It’s a nope day and I think I need to give myself more nope days.
I want to give my eyes a break from seeing, anything. I want to put an eye mask on and not take it off for 24 hours, not to experience it, but because my eyes need a break from existence. Does that even make sense? Don’t answer that. I don’t actually care, haha.
No links to anything. No big reveals. Just, this:
It's ok to have a nope day!
You deserve them
So do I.
Do you love you? It seems like a simple question, but is it really? I want to love me. I want…
Trans Journey Day 66: More fucking hair — I want to be Steve, not Benji (and yes, I DO have a crush on Steve). No offense to Benji— two of my favorite peeps are bears). But seriously, a spattering of dark hairs has invaded the underside of my right forearm.
Considering body hair is not supposed to even start until 3 to 6 months on T, and I’m on half the usual dose, I don’t know if I should:
But… I also see this as a great opportunity to talk about something that… isn’t! I see articles from trans women wanting to rid themselves of hair, but it seems trans mascs WANT the hair.
Article in the works.
It’s my style *wink*.
I’ve said it before, I don’t write to make money, but making money from writing allows me to write more. Thank you to all of my followers and future followers! Thank you to everyone who has read…
Trans Journey Day 65: How do I stop focusing on the future (and living in anxiety), and stop feeling the past (and living in trauma), and BE PRESENT? It’s the question of my existence. An epic therapy session last week uncovered the root of… everything!
Now, the adventure (my preferred term for challenge, fight, push, hustle, etc.) is to find how that relates to my trans journey. You know shit’s about to get real when the therapist you’ve been seeing for months says, “I feel like not that we’ve found this, we really need to plan this out and create a way to explore it.” Oh crap! Yes, it’s that big!
What this space because I think the best way to explore my thoughts is to share them. Enjoy?